Develop the habit of letting things go very easily. No one can exist successfully entirely by himself, as long as you relate to humans there’s bound to be some disappointment amongst other things.
Many times, it’s the people closest to us that hurt us, it’s not common for someone whom you have no relationship or connection with to hurt you. There’s a popular saying: “to err is human.” No one’s perfect. Don’t see these people as beasts. If you will look into things properly, you will find that you hurt a lot of people yourself. Never get to a place where you think others are the problem and you are an angel. Thinking yourself to be perfect is proof that you have some major issues.
The truth is that people will hurt you, let you down, betray you, amongst other things but it’s up to you if you’ll let these things hold you back or not. It’s your choice whether you will build strong emotional feelings attached to these pains and hold on to them.
I’ve come to notice that people hurt one many times with no idea of what they have done and they go on living their lives, having fun and making progress while one replays the hurtful incident over and over in the mind, not moving on.
Don’t let the people make you by their actions or inactions, decide who you want to be and BE! Decide if you want to be happy, have fun, be in class early, make good grades and don’t let the actions of others be the tool with which you will tie yourself down.
You might have gone through unimaginable events that many haven’t. There are many stories of people who forgave all sorts of great evils done to them. You are alive! Feel the hurt, let it go and be who you want to be!
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